I wanted to write down some things about my trip to Moldova this year while they are still fresh in my mind. Hopefully, these thoughts will be coherent, in spite of jet lag.
I went on this trip, despite the fears involved in leaving Nora for so long, with a desire to go and serve those sweet children in Moldova. And, as always, what I poured out came back to me 100 times over. I had butterflies in my stomach walking down the hill into camp for the first time, wondering what it would be like to see my kids again after an absence of three years. We walk down a somewhat paved road into the middle of camp where there is an awning with rickety benches underneath. It is surrounded by the shabby 8×8 huts that the children live in during the summer. I was looking around for Grisa, and finally saw him come out of a cabin back under the trees. We made eye contact, and started to make our way toward each other, first walking, then running, and I finally ended in a crushing bear hug that literally lifted me off my feet. The last time I saw this boy in 2008, he was about shoulder height and skinny as a rail. I had to stand on my toes to throw my arms around his neck this time, and each time I started to release him, he just held me tighter. After a few minutes (literally), I finally heard him sniffing and realized he was crying. I was absolutely blown away. First of all, you just don’t see 16 year old Moldovan boys cry. And after such a long time away, it floored me that with nothing but letters from me as his sponsor, he was so moved by seeing me again. I wish I had a video of that moment. It would speak so much more than these words. But God was there, and I truly felt it. I knew then, in a new and tangible way how crucial sponsorship relationships are for these children… and for us. Grisa and I were nearly inseparable for the rest of the trip.
I was so thoroughly impressed by Grisa the entire week. I saw a young man who looked out for those who were smaller than he, who was courteous to me and the other women (he was constantly opening doors for me and leading me through, or offering his hand to help me), and who was a natural leader among his peers. He helped us keep some of the rowdier boys in line. He set an example in worship and small groups by listening to his leaders and being involved in the conversation. He even led our whole group in a worship song one night! Looking back on all of this, I know that it is truly a reflection of the hand of God on his life. Grisa has been in the orphanage since he was nine years old, and has had no father figure to model the life of a godly man to him. As my sister said to me in one of her letters, where great miracles are needed, great miracles are provided. And the Lord has indeed worked a miracle in this young man’s life. He is now in the capital city in our Boys2Leaders program where he will go to college, be mentored and discipled by other men, and learn to take care of and provide for himself. I can’t wait to see what the Lord has planned for his life, and I am both humbled and grateful to have been allowed to be a small part of that plan.
None of my other sponsored children were at camp this week, but our amazing national director in Moldova (and my sweet friend), Alina, told them we would be there, so Igor and Vlad caught a bus on their own and came to camp for the last three days! It was so fantastic to see them both. They had both grown so much as well, and Igor is getting pretty good at English! I had the best week just spending quality time with my boys, and marveling at how much they had changed over the past three years.
Due to some frightening things going on with the government, many of the children that would normally be in the orphanage are being farmed out to family members or foster families, whether they can afford to take care of them or not, unfortunately. We only had about 25-30 kids instead of the 80-100 I was used to seeing. It was hard seeing so few of them there, and wondering where the others were, but having such a small number also enabled us to spend a ton of quality, one-on-one time with the kids who were present.
Our group and our translators had the opportunity to take all the kids out on the town one day. Our wonderful drivers picked the kids up in our vans and we met them in town where we proceeded to go watch Gnomeo and Juliet… in Russian. It was fantastic. The kids were concerned that we wouldn’t understand what was going on, but I think most of us picked up on the plot. =) Then we went to a pizzeria close by, and had a long line of tables pushed together, from one end of their patio to the other. And we sat down as a family, Americans and Moldovans, kids and adults, and we broke bread together. Well, it was pizza, but it was amazing. It really was like sitting down to a family meal. The kids were so well behaved, and we had a great time just sitting and talking and laughing together. Perhaps it was unwise of us to go straight from pizza to their amusement park, but we did it anyway! I would compare it to a carnival that you would see in the mall parking lot here. My boys somehow convinced me to get on a ferris wheel, which was terrifying. The rest of the rides were a blast. We had our hands in the air on the “roller coaster;” we zoomed around on the swings, and some of us were brave enough to ride the gravitron, which spins you around and around really quickly. Some of the kids got a little sick after riding it, but they all had the time of their lives that day. We did too!
I could go on telling stories forever, and I would be happy to do so if you ask me about it! But to sum everything up, I would say that we really saw the value of sponsorships during this trip. The seeds that were planted through some of our first sponsorships (mine started back in 2006), are truly beginning to bear tangible fruit. It is incredible to look at these kids, who have had the love and support of a committed friend for the past several years, and wonder how different their lives would be without it. I don’t know what Grisa would be like, but looking at him now makes me absolutely confident that even if I can’t go out and change the whole world, it matters that I am playing a small part in changing one life. It is so humbling. God doesn’t need me to accomplish his mighty works, but He allows me to be a part of something amazing, something bigger than myself, and my life is the richer for it. My friend, Alva, and I were talking one night about our sponsor children who showed up unexpectedly at camp (her girl came alone from several hours away without even knowing exactly how to get to camp!). The ways of the Lord are marvelous. We went to Moldova, hoping to see our kids, and to be able to pour our love out on them. We arrived to find that they were just as eager to get to us, and pour out their own love into our lives.
“…you will fill me with joy in your presence…” ~Ps. 16:11
Amanda Sanfilippo
Falesti Team
Posted in Summer 2011 by stevedavis 1 Comment